Fellatio - Oral sex upon a penis
What is Fellatio?
Fellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job. Many men
love this kind of stimulation, and many people,
both women and men, like giving it. Fellatio is the
act of applying your lips to a man's penis with the
purpose of giving him pleasure.
There are few tips to fellatio that can be given
other than practice. The lips and the tongue are
the major sources of stimulation, and it is with the
lips and tongue that you should apply the
attention to make him feel good. Both men and
women respond well to pressure and rhythm. A
steady, strong stroke will be enough to get the
reaction you're looking for.
What if it doesn't smell
or taste good?
If the smell isn't something you enjoy, then tell
him to go take a shower! While this is something
you're doing primarily for his pleasure, that
doesn't mean you have to suffer if he's lacking in
hygiene! And if you're worried about germs, your
mouth has millions more germs than a clean
penis.
What is "deep
throating?"
Deep throating is the act of taking the penis down
past your gag reflex. In reality, this particular
sexual adventure is very overrated. The best way
to give fellatio is still with the lips and tongue,
taking only as much as you can without gagging.
However, for those that want to know, the basic
lesson is still practice. Take the penis as far as
you can without choking, and then close your
eyes and concentrate, taking each quarter inch,
telling yourself that you won't choke, that you can
take it out at any time, and slowly swallow it down.
Then rise off of it just as slowly.
Are there any special
spots on the penis?
Every penis is different, and each has its sensitive
spots and its preferred ways of being handled.
Listen to your lover. The sounds he makes and
the feel of his body tensing are your best clues
that you're going this right.
Should I use my
hands?
Feel free to grasp with your hands whatever of the
penis you can't fit into your mouth. Many men like
as much stimulation as possible, and the feel of a
wet mouth and a saliva-slicked hand are enough
to send them to the brink of orgasm very quickly.
What is 69?
Some people feel that the best position to perform
oral sex is the 69 position, where each partner lies
with their head by the other's genitals. For fellatio,
this even makes sense-- most penises curve
upwards, towards the head, and in this position
that curve matches the curve of the throat.
However, it is difficult to both perform and
appreciate oral sex at the same time. Try the
position, or kneel by his body, but at least in the
beginning do one thing at a time.
My boyfriend wants me
to swallow. What do I
do?
Which brings us to a sensitive issue: swallowing
ejaculate. For many men, this is important to
them-- they like to feel that by swallowing their
semen, you complete this act of lovemaking and
accept a part of themselves into your body. But
many people don't like the taste of semen and
can't bring themselves. Talk about this
beforehand-- let him know if you can't handle it,
and that it's not personal.
Can I make my seminal
fluids taste better?
Macrobiotic nutritionists have actually done
research on this question, and the answer is in:
you are what you eat. Common sense dictates
that if you taste good, your lover will want to eat
you more often, so improving your body's taste
and smell should be important to you.
In general, nutritionsists say that alkaline-based
foods such as meets and fish produce a butter,
fish taste. Dairy products, which contain a high
bacterial putrefaction level create the foulest
tasting fluids by far. (Dissent: almost everyone I
know says that there is one worse than a
high-dairy content-- asparagus. You can't miss
the taste of asparagus-laced semen.) Acidic fruits,
such as sweets, fruits, and alcohol give bodily
fluids a pleasant, sugary flavor. Chemically
processed liquors will cause an extremely acidic
taste, however, so if you're going to drink alcohol,
drink high-quality, naturally fermented beers
(Rolling Rock or Kirin) or sake.
What are the contents
of semen?
The question of semen content arises especially
among persons who regularly swallow semen, as
in fellatio, and who are concerned about calorie
intake and nutritional substances. The average
ejaculate contains aboutonia, ascorbic acid,
blood-group antigens, calcium, chlorine,
cholesterol, choline, citric acid, creatine,
deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA), fructose,
glutathione, hyaluronidase, inositol, lactic acid,
magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium,
purine, pyrimidine, pyruvic acid, sodium, sorbitol,
spermidine, spermine, urea, uric acid, vitamin
b12, and zinc.
The caloric content of an average ejaculate is
estimated to be approximately 15 calories.
A last word.
There is only one true way to do fellatio, and
that's with enthusiasm. You have to love what
you're doing to him, either because you love him
or you love sucking cock. Loving both is best!
Faked orgasms have nothing on lackluster fellatio.